"Ask nearly anyone who grew up Catholic what they’re doing for Lent, and they’ll probably tell you what they’re “giving up.” The notion of giving up some pleasure for the 40 days of Lent is very much in keeping with the penitential character of the season.
Of course, the primary pillars of Lent are prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. All of these are intended to turn our hearts back to God, to purify us, and prepare us for the celebration of Christ’s resurrection at Easter. One of the things that the whole Church gives up for Lent is the acclamation “Alleluia” before the proclamation of the Gospel." http://www.foryourmarriage.org/why-do-catholics-give-things-up-for-lent/
For Lent I always do 2 things. I do one thing to make myself a better person (ie give up a bad habit I may have), and giving up something I really enjoy. The punishment is always financial with the proceeds going to charity.
In past years I have stopped swearing, stopped snapping at my husband (and vice versa), given up chocolate (that was AWFUL) and given up diet pop.
This year I decided that I would not raise my voice at the children for 40 days. The only time it is acceptable to do so during this time is if their life is in danger. My son ran away from me in the parking lot today and that equaled a free yell. Sheesh!
I also gave up eating after 7pm. No nightly snacks for me. This is something that I had no idea I enjoyed as much as I do.
That is NO big deal you say to yourself. That one is easssssssy. WRONG people. It is so hard AND my husband keeps making popcorn at 7:30pm at night. I am DYING here. Also I have been late to work 4 times since the start of Lent. How is that for not raising your voice at the children????
Sigh - Easter is soooooooooooooooo far away
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